The short version
Legitimate cash buyers show proof of funds without offense, put deposits in escrow, close through title companies, and give you time for attorney review. The bad ones share tells: pressure to sign today, requests to deed the property before closing, "we'll catch up your payments while you rent it back," contracts with long free options and no deposit, offers wildly above market designed to hook then re-trade, and any up-front fee. One rule filters most of it: money and deed move at a real closing, never before.
The structural tells
Read the contract for these: no or trivial deposit (a buyer with no skin can tie up your house free while shopping the contract); an inspection period measured in months (that is an option, not a purchase); assignment language with no closing obligation; and a closing date that floats. None of these is illegal — wholesaling is a real business — but every one shifts risk onto the seller with the least time to spare. A real deposit in escrow and a hard closing date are what commitment looks like in writing.
The behavioral tells
Sign-today pressure is the classic — legitimate buyers survive your attorney-review period; New Jersey builds one in. The too-high hook is subtler: an offer conspicuously above everyone else's, followed by "inspection findings" that walk it down after your other buyers have moved on. And the rent-back rescue — "deed it to us, we'll fix the arrears, you stay as a tenant" — is the signature move of equity-stripping scams that New Jersey's fraud statute exists to punish. The deed goes to a buyer at closing, or it goes nowhere.
A near-miss, illustrated
An illustrative composite: a Union homeowner with a sale date gets a knock and an offer $40,000 above the two quotes she already has — sign tonight, $500 deposit, 90-day close, buyer may assign. Because she has other numbers, the anomaly is visible: the offer is bait, the timeline eats her adjournments, and the assignment clause means the knocker is shopping her house, not buying it. She declines, takes the middle offer with proof of funds and 21 days, and closes with three weeks to spare. The defense was not expertise. It was comparison.
The ten-minute screen
Before signing anything: proof of funds (current, named, verifiable); deposit amount and escrow holder; closing date and what happens if it slips; inspection window length; assignment rights; who pays which closing costs; and the name of the title company. Then the two absolutes: no up-front fees ever, and no deed transfer outside a closing. Any buyer bothered by the checklist has answered it.
Walkthroughs in this article are illustrative composites for education, not client stories or testimonials.
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